Deciding whether to do a first look on your wedding day can feel like a big choice. Should you stick to the tradition of waiting until the aisle, or go for that private, pre-ceremony moment? While there’s no right or wrong answer, the benefits of a first look on your wedding day make it worth considering—they can help your day flow better and create unforgettable moments for you and your partner.

More Time for Photos (and Actually Enjoying Cocktail Hour)

If you skip the first look, you’ll probably spend your cocktail hour cramming in family portraits, wedding party shots, and couple photos. A first look lets you knock out a lot of these ahead of time, meaning more time to hang out with your guests and sip those fancy drinks you spent months picking out. Plus, you won’t feel rushed trying to squeeze everything into a tight window.

It’s a Private Moment, Just for You Two

Your wedding day is full of people—family, friends, vendors—so finding a quiet moment alone with your partner can be tough. A first look gives you that little slice of calm to breathe, connect, and just be. It’s a chance to say what’s on your heart without a hundred pairs of eyes watching, which can be way less intimidating.

Feel Less Nervous Walking Down the Aisle

One of the biggest fears I hear from couples is feeling overwhelmed or too emotional when the ceremony starts. Seeing each other beforehand can help take the edge off. It doesn’t ruin the magic of walking down the aisle—it actually makes it sweeter because you’re not as jittery.

The Reactions Are Always Genuine

If you’re worried that a first look won’t feel as emotional as seeing each other at the ceremony, let me tell you—it absolutely still hits. Without the crowd or pressure of the ceremony, your reactions are raw and real. Whether it’s tears, laughs, or an “OMG, you look amazing,” you’ll have the space to let it all out, and your photographer will be right there to catch every second.

It Sets the Tone for the Day

Starting the day with a first look can bring the focus back to what matters most: the two of you. It’s a reminder that this day isn’t just about the timeline or the details—it’s about your relationship. Many couples say it helps them feel more grounded and present as the rest of the day unfolds.

So, is a first look for everyone? Not necessarily! But the benefits of a first look on your wedding day, from creating calm to making the whole experience more intentional, can make it an incredible addition to your celebration. It’s one of those moments you’ll look back on and cherish forever, knowing it set the perfect tone for your day.

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“The quality of her photos are far superior to other well known photographers in the area. Olivia’s enthusiasm, professionalism and sheer excitement for my husband and I on our wedding day was so lovely and genuine. I would highly recommend LivByGrace Photography for any and all your photography needs! Thank you Olivia, you captured our day perfectly!”