Not every client walks into a session brimming with confidence in front of the lens. Many feel shy, self-conscious, or unsure of what to do with their hands. As photographers, part of our job is helping clients relax and enjoy the process so their true personalities can shine. If you’re wondering how to direct clients who feel awkward in front of the camera, here are 5 tips to make your sessions smooth, fun, and successful.

1. Break the Ice Before the Session

An awkward session often starts before the first photo is taken. Break the ice ahead of time by chatting during the consultation or pre-session emails. Ask about their favorite music, hobbies, or special moments for the couple. Even sending a quick playlist suggestion to set the mood can help them feel more comfortable before they even arrive.

2. Keep Poses Relaxed and Familiar

Skip the dramatic, high-fashion poses if your clients aren’t models. Instead, focus on easy, natural movements like walking together, leaning on each other, or sitting side-by-side. These low-pressure actions help clients feel at ease and allow their personalities to shine without worrying about “getting it right.”

3. Give Constant Positive Feedback

One of the easiest ways to boost a client’s confidence is to let them know they’re doing well. Offer genuine compliments throughout the session, like, “This looks amazing,” or “You two have such great chemistry.” Even if they feel unsure, hearing that reassurance helps them loosen up and trust the process.

4. Show Them Sneak Peeks During the Session

Many clients feel anxious because they don’t know how the photos are turning out. Take a moment during the session to show them a few shots on your camera. Seeing how great they look can ease their nerves and give them an extra boost of confidence.

5. Use Humor to Break Tension

Laughter is a powerful tool for breaking down walls. Crack a joke, make an exaggerated silly pose, or share a funny story. If your clients laugh, they’ll naturally relax—and those candid smiles and genuine moments often make for the best photos.

6. Demonstrate Poses or Movements

When words don’t translate well, physically show them what you’re asking for. Whether it’s mimicking a pose or acting out a playful movement, demonstrating takes the pressure off your clients. Plus, seeing you laugh at your own “modeling” can lighten the mood.

7. Focus on Connection, Not Perfection

Clients often worry about looking “perfect” in photos, but those worries disappear when the focus shifts to their connection with each other. Encourage them to interact naturally—whisper something silly, share a hug, or talk about their favorite moment together. The genuine emotions that surface in those moments will make the photos feel authentic and effortless.

Making Every Client Feel Confident

Helping clients feel comfortable in front of the camera isn’t about perfect poses or rigid directions—it’s about creating an environment where they feel seen, heard, and supported. By breaking the ice, keeping things lighthearted, and focusing on their connection, you’ll transform even the most awkward clients into confident, glowing stars.

Knowing how to direct clients who feel awkward in front of the camera not only improves the overall experience but also strengthens your reputation as a photographer who truly cares. When clients feel safe and encouraged, they’re more likely to recommend your services to friends and return for future sessions. Remember, your role goes beyond taking photos—you’re also creating memories and building relationships.

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Kind Words

“The quality of her photos are far superior to other well known photographers in the area. Olivia’s enthusiasm, professionalism and sheer excitement for my husband and I on our wedding day was so lovely and genuine. I would highly recommend LivByGrace Photography for any and all your photography needs! Thank you Olivia, you captured our day perfectly!”